Monday 24 October 2011

Read to your baby!

"It's never too early to read to your baby!"

Yes. I certainly subscribe to that. :)
My husband and I took turns to read bible stories aloud since I was pregnant. Once awhile, we would go to the library to borrow children books and "read a story to my baby" before we sleep. :P

I was clueless whether he really knew what Daddy and Mummy were doing, but it certainly formed the habit for Alphonse and myself to read a story to him every night.

During the first 2 months after giving birth to him, I was rather confined and couldn't borrow books from the library. So Alphonse and I downloaded Andriod Apps which contain children stories/bible stories to read to Elric. From 3 months onwards, we visited the library almost every weekend to borrow 6 books. (that's the maximum number of books we can borrow with each library card)

1 week 6 books = 4 weeks 24 books
That's quite a lot!


hahahahahahaaha.... No wonder my son is a bookworm!!!
He loves munching on his books.



ohh... the book taste good!



Don't get me wrong! I have totally no intention to train him to be some nerds or scholars. I was never a book lover myself. I just think it is more beneficial for him to be occupied reading then to indulge in iPad games. There are so much more a child can learn from books and baby toys than those games. So I must start the habit young.

So why is reading good for the babies?

It teaches your baby to listen. Remember that your baby does not only learn the words you read, your baby is also learning your tone of voice. So when you read the story to your baby, care to be more expressive. For example, "Woah, that's a BIG elephant!"
"See? That's a smalllll turtle!"

This will help him improve his communication skills. When your baby hears you speak, he is learning too. You may not understand his "Gu gu ga ga ga... bua bu ba ba mumu mama ma..." but he is learning to express by imitating you and that will ultimately improve his communication skills. You will be surprised how expressive your baby can be when he starts to speak!

Reading your baby a story, is also a good time for family bonding. Your baby gets a quality period of time with you. He gets your full attention and he enjoy listening to your voice. :)

There are many types of baby books which are suitable for your baby.
You can always head to the library to grab some books too. Just that the books have passed through many hands. You may want to avoid letting him lick or bite on the book!(>__<)

Books borrowed from library. Careful to clean their hands after touching and reading.
 Unlike the past, there are many types of books designed to aid the growth and development of babies.


 Touch and Feel books


These are the books with different texture for babies to touch and learn.
You will see portions of the pictures with a different cloth material to stimulate the child's sense of touch.


Waterproof books
I bought this waterproof book from Campbell Books when Elric was just 3 months.
He loves this book since, and we bring it along whenever we travel out. This waterproof book is great as a bath time activity too. Keep you child occupied with the book while you scrub him clean! :D

waterproof book from Campbell Books
Normal Board books
Bought this Ugly duckling book from Popular at $4.90. :D Cheap Cheap! I like! whahahaha... It is heavy though, so if your baby still can't sit up straight, don't let him handle the book on a lying position. Just in case he drop the book onto his face. It happened to Elric. :(

Cloth Books
I bought these cloth books sometime back from http://www.joli-petite.com. The good thing about cloth books is that they are very light and easy to bring along. I got the pack of 6 books at $26. (each about $4.50 after adding postage). The bed time prayer book was $15.90. Once a while I would pick this up and reread to him. I like this one because the colours in the book are in pastel colours. No so stimulating and suitable as a bedtime story.


Musical books
My Mother-in-law bought this Fisher Price Musical book for Elric. She bought it from Malaysia but I checked the local pricing. ABOUT $40+!!!! Well, grandma always dotes on their grandchildren. Right? :)

Elric like this book alot too! It's very colours and everytime you spin the round button at the corner, it will introduce the animals on the page and plays a song. I will sing along with it every page I turn.



Activities Book
This is the latest book which I bought. The Playgro Clip Clop Toy Box Teether book. You can find it at http://www.joli-petite.com ($16.90).

 
I am still struggling with what animal this is. Pony right???
We all know that children products are getting more and more expensive. Hence with every purchase, we want to make sure that we are stretching every dollar to the max. So here is one good product I found! :D It's not just something fun to play with, it is also great for learning.

Elric with his new toy book explorig the legs and tail of the toy.
You can guess by its name (Toy Box) that this book contains different activities for the child.
1. It is a CUTE TOY! The colour pictures and legs stimulate visual learning.
2. The crinkle and texture of the pages encourage sensory and tactile learning.
3. There is a squeaky at the head of the toy which stimulates motor skills and audio development
4. The red and blue feet or 2 textile teethers

Lastly, I personally like the red velco strap which you can use to secure the book when you are bringing it out. :) Thoughtful isn't it? 

Best of all, Elric loves it!




Woah... This is a lengthy post. :P
Hope my sharing will encourage you to read to your child/baby too!
Instead of letting your child play your iPad, INVEST some time to read and play with them.
You effort will NOT go to waste!

Cheers,
Kaye









Saturday 15 October 2011

Just for Laugh

Kaye: A sign that Alp is too bored!!


Swaddling is a traditional practice of wrapping infants in swaddling cloths. It is believed that babies will feel calm and secure being swaddled up so as to enable them to sleep well. However please do take note to ensure that the baby is not swaddled too tight :p~~~

Below are pictures taken when Elric was less than a month old.


Muahahahahhahahahaha...






I was looking back at those old pictures...














 My cutie ELRIC!!!!
See he has grown so much over the last 9 months!

( ^ o ^ )

'Cosplaying' Elric into a Cupid

I knew in my mind that it will be a perfect Cupid pic after Kaye took those 3 lovely pic of Elric wrapped with his diaper cloth. (clean of course :P) I spent quite sometime on the xiuxiu.meitu to edit his picture.

No no... I am not bringing him out for Halloween party. hahaha
but this is so fun!!!

At least I managed to entertain myself. I am sure we will have a good laugh when I flip back these pictures with kiddy Elric on my laps. :D

Before editing <=        => After editing
The complete version



To some of our friends who are considering setting up a family, hope this will encourage you to look forward to parenthood! :P


To Elric:
Careful hor... Don't anyhow shoot your arrow ok?
Can be very jialat one loh! :P

Thursday 13 October 2011

Baby Abandoned in the Dump, eaten by Ants



I teared when I read this article from theasianparents.
http://sg.theasianparent.com/articles/baby-eaten-by-red-ants-in-dump/



How can ANYONE in the right mind throw A BABY into the dump!!!!??
That's absolutely insane!!!
What's more, it's the mother's very own flesh and blood! She carried it where ever she went for 9 long months! She brought that little soul onto earth and immediately tell him that he is unwanted and he belongs to the dump?! Gosh!!

This poor baby was thrown into the dump alive. Ants were eating his flesh and crawled into his nose, almost suffocating him!!!

Can you imagine what that helpless baby went through???
Mother of the child!! Helloooooo! Lay yourself in the dump and get bitten all over! Can???
This reminded me of the Singapore case of the baby being buried in the soil and found out by an uncle.


The last thing the mother could do, is to give the baby away! In a school, a home, a church... Why bury/dump the baby!? Why do you want to murder your own baby?!
Due to selfishness. No? You want to live your own life, don't want your baby and afraid of being caught by police for whatever reasons?



*Breath*


As much as the chinese song goes "世上只有妈妈好”, it is a sad truth that there are many mothers in the world who are not so loving to their babies. :(

We may not be the richest people in the world or have the capability to provide our babies with the best in the world. But with whatever we can offer, we provide for them. Even if you think you have NOTHING to provide for your baby, he just needs to be with you. Cause you (yes mother! YOU) are his world! Without you, his world collapses! You are THAT important.

Some says, "That's why I chose abortion."
Is abortion any better??
To me, absolutely NO!


Your baby,

born or unborn



does not belong to the dump.


Baby, "Mama, please take my hands... not my life."

Sunday 9 October 2011

NEW LOOT: Multi Activity Box from Jam 'n Muffin

We happened to come across this coupon deal from Jam'n Muffin in June and since then we have been eyeing on the toys available on the site. 

No no no... it is not Ben and Jerry.. Ben and Muffins... Jam and Berries!!! 

WHATEVER... for 5 months we've been visitig that site we still managed to get the name wrong!  

Okay... get it right for once. It's JAM 'n MUFFIN

Jam 'n Muffin emphasizes about their environmentally friendly products which promotes learning for our kids. 

This is what they promise in the products they sell: 

  • Recycled or Recyclable
  • Natural (made from 100% natural products)
  • Organic (from certified sources)
  • Non-Toxic and Bisphenol A Free
  • Sourced from low impact / renewable sources
  • Encourages waste reduction / energy reduction
  • Produced under fair-trade conditions 
Pretty impressive isn't it?


With all the negative news about toys/clothes/milk powder that are harmful and toxic, all we need is the assurance that the toys we buy are not causing harm to our little ones.


So what's our loot from there? 


The Multi Activity Box!



Here's the description:
A magic box to awaken all the senses. Your little one would be delighted with the different colours, shapes and numbers.

Features a mirror, a maze to find the colours of fruits and vegetables, a clock to tell the time, a magnetic origami and an abacus to help develop concentration and motor skills. The abacus can be removed for ease of storage.

Designed in the heart of the Jura Mountains, France
16.5 x 16.5 x 29cm
12+ months


When I tried using the coupon code, I had some trouble. The site stated that there was an error in the code. So I contacted the site where I bought it from and Jam 'n Muffin promptly responded within a few hours!
Problem solved and my coupon code worked! :) 
Good service!

Okie... Elric is still 9 months old and the toy is meant for 12 Months old. 
But I accidentally let Elric spot the toy. So might as well take some pictures for you to see. ^^ 



Elric seems to like the Magnetic Origami very much. Only that the triangles have sharp edges, so we have got to monitor closely when he plays. 



Thanks Ben and Jerry... OOPSSS... I mean JAM 'N MUFFIN!!!